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…fr\u00e5n sociala medier<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Generationsklyftan mellan oss f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar i 30-40 och v\u00e5ra ungar \u00e4r enorm n\u00e4r det g\u00e4ller\u00a0sociala medier.\u00a0N\u00e4r till exempel instagramupploppen i G\u00f6teborg 2012 f\u00f6rst blossade upp fattade ingen vuxen hur stort det var, ingen vuxen s\u00e5g faran i de f\u00f6rsta tecknen, ingen vuxen anade hur illa det skulle bli eller vilka konsekvenser det skulle f\u00e5 f\u00f6r de drabbade, men det gjorde ungdomarna.<\/p>\n

Jag tror jag var runt 26 n\u00e4r jag skaffade mitt facebook-konto. Jag har ingen aning om hur det \u00e4r att g\u00e5 omkring i puberteten och v\u00e4nta och tjata om\u00a0till\u00e5telse att registrera mig. Jag vet inte hur det \u00e4r att inte kunna l\u00e4mna skolan i skolan under de tyngre ton\u00e5ren, att aldrig f\u00e5 en paus fr\u00e5n fjortisintriger, att det \u00f6ver en natt, bokstavligen, kan h\u00e4nda saker som drabbar mig p\u00e5 ett eller annat s\u00e4tt. Jag kan bara f\u00f6rest\u00e4lla mig.<\/p>\n

Jag har i flera \u00e5r funderat kring hur man som f\u00f6r\u00e4lder ska tackla allt det h\u00e4r som man sj\u00e4lv inte vuxit upp med och allts\u00e5 inte kan relatera till. \u2014 Jag menar visst, jag \u00e4r ganska hemma p\u00e5 sociala medier idag, men jag l\u00e4rde mig som vuxen.\u00a0Det \u00e4r f\u00f6r nytt f\u00f6r att det ska finnas h\u00e5llbar forskning p\u00e5 vad den sociala-medie-cirkusen har f\u00f6r konsekvens p\u00e5 unga vuxna som levt med den hela sina liv.<\/p>\n

Jag har aldrig varit s\u00e4rskilt f\u00f6rtjust i att f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar liksom fl\u00e4ker ut sina sm\u00e5ttingar p\u00e5 facebook, jag brukar t\u00e4nka att n\u00e4r den d\u00e4r bilden v\u00e4l n\u00e5r facebook, n\u00e4r den kommer upp p\u00e5 n\u00e4tet, s\u00e5 g\u00e5r den aldrig att radera. Det spelar ingen roll om du raderar den, f\u00f6r den kommer alltid att finnas, n\u00e5gonstans. Allt som kommer ut p\u00e5 n\u00e4tet finns kvar, det \u00e4r lite som skr\u00e4p som folk obekymrat kastar i havet. Det f\u00f6ljer undervattensstr\u00f6mmar, tidvatten och djurliv och dyker sedan upp p\u00e5 de mest ov\u00e4ntade st\u00e4llen. Kort sagt, man kan inte ta tillbaka en bild och barnen som v\u00e4xer upp kommer en dag inse vilka bilder som redan ligger p\u00e5 n\u00e4tet tack vare att mamma inte hade vett att fatta vad hon gjorde. Eller ta det p\u00e5 allvar.<\/p>\n

Man kan inte heller be om barnens till\u00e5telse att l\u00e4gga upp bilder, f\u00f6r de \u00e4r f\u00f6r unga f\u00f6r att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 vad det inneb\u00e4r fullt ut. Jag och Bj\u00f6rn har pratat mycket om det h\u00e4r. Eftersom jag bloggar och han bokstavligen jobbar med internet s\u00e5 betraktar vi problemet fr\u00e5n varsin sida; jag vill l\u00e4gga upp massa bilder och han f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker synas s\u00e5 lite han kan p\u00e5 n\u00e4tet, precis som m\u00e5nga andra i samma branch.<\/p>\n

Vi vill b\u00e5da skydda Simon fr\u00e5n att synas f\u00f6r mycket, och vi sa innan han kom att vi inte skulle l\u00e4gga upp n\u00e5gra bilder p\u00e5 facebook p\u00e5 honom, att v\u00e5ra v\u00e4nner som tar foton inte f\u00e5r tagga dem och helst inte l\u00e4gga upp dem alls.<\/p>\n

Man kan ju tydligt se i den h\u00e4r bloggen att jag sviktar lite i uppf\u00f6ljningen av det beslutet. F\u00f6r varje bild jag l\u00e4gger upp p\u00e5 Simon fr\u00e5gar jag mig sj\u00e4lv om man kan k\u00e4nna igen honom, och om jag, om jag var han och senare fick se att just den<\/em> bilden fanns p\u00e5 n\u00e4tet, sj\u00e4lv skulle tycka det var jobbigt.<\/p>\n

Bj\u00f6rn s\u00e5g vilka bilder jag lagt upp p\u00e5 Simon h\u00e4rom dan \u2014 allts\u00e5 jag d\u00f6ljer ingenting f\u00f6r honom, han bara l\u00e4ser inte bloggen \u2014 och blev f\u00f6rv\u00e5nad och allvarlig. Han tyckte inte det var n\u00e5gon fara med dem, men f\u00f6r att citera:<\/p>\n

”Jag blev bara f\u00f6rv\u00e5nad, eftersom vi sa att vi inte skulle g\u00f6ra det.”<\/p>\n

Jag kunde bara h\u00e5lla med. N\u00e4r allt kommer omkring hade jag ju bara slirat lite, inte gl\u00f6mt. \u00c4n s\u00e5 l\u00e4nge ser han bara ut som en s\u00f6t bebis, men snart b\u00f6rjar v\u00e4l hans egna drag skymta s\u00e5 sm\u00e5tt och d\u00e5 blir det en helt annan sak. Vi m\u00e5ste skydda v\u00e5ra ungar, tills de \u00e4r gamla nog att v\u00e4lja sj\u00e4lva.<\/p>\n

S\u00e5, med det sagt, s\u00e5 kommer i forts\u00e4ttningen Simons ansikte prydas av samma slags dekorationer som mitt eget \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

\"fundera<\/p>\n

M-m, fundera p\u00e5 den, du.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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