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Varken jag eller Bj\u00f6rn \u00e4r stormiga individer med k\u00e4nsloutbrott och drama som vardagskryddor, men nog h\u00e4nder det att vi fastnar i (t\u00f6ntiga) diskussioner som ibland eskalerar till livliga alternativt hetsiga utbyten av repetitiva meningar till f\u00f6ljd av en f\u00f6reg\u00e5ende detaljbaserad spr\u00e5kf\u00f6rbistring \u00e0 la det-var-v\u00e4l-inte-sj\u00e4lvklart-att-vi-pratar-om-flygblad-vi-pratade-ju-om-bungyjump-alldeles-nyss. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ingen \u00e4r perfekt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det har d\u00e4remot aldrig slagit mig att dessa livliga diskussioner skulle kunna uppfattas som verkliga br\u00e5k och g\u00f6ra v\u00e5r omgivning illa till mods. \u00c5terigen; det h\u00e4nder inte ofta redan som det \u00e4r, och \u00e4nnu mer s\u00e4llan inf\u00f6r publik. Men h\u00e4rom dan blev det sm\u00e4rtsamt uppenbart, och vi svor p\u00e5 att aldrig mer g\u00f6ra s\u00e5 n\u00e4r vi h\u00f6rs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vad konstiga de \u00e4r<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Det var tisdag, strax efter middan. Min mamma var h\u00e4r, hon satt i soffan med Simon och de tittade i en bok tillsammans. Jag och Bj\u00f6rn stod i k\u00f6ket. Det b\u00f6rjade med en oviktig f\u00f6rvirring om huruvida jag torkat bordet med golvtrasan eller ej (alla v\u00e5ra trasor \u00e4r likadana, det \u00e4r de d\u00e4r sm\u00e5handdukarna<\/a> fr\u00e5n Ikea, du vet). Sen f\u00f6ljde f\u00f6rvirring om vem som senast haft den och bla bla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mamma ropade roat fr\u00e5n soffan n\u00e5t om att har ni inte viktigare saker att diskutera \u00e4n glovtrasor. Jag skrattade, samtidigt var jag lite st\u00f6rd p\u00e5 Bj\u00f6rn men inte p\u00e5 allvar, diskussionen blev mer en ventil f\u00f6r n\u00e5t, samtidigt som det var lite roligt att reta honom. Jag k\u00e4nde mig som n\u00e4r jag var liten och retades med min lillebror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Efter en stund sa Simon, utan att ta blicken fr\u00e5n boken, till sin mormor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

”Vad konstiga de \u00e4r.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

”Konstiga hurd\u00e5, menar du?” sa hon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

”De \u00e4r konstiga n\u00e4r de br\u00e5kar.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det l\u00e4t som om detta var n\u00e5got han ofta fick utst\u00e5, och att han tog skada. Riktig skada allts\u00e5, inuti. Hj\u00e4rtat sviktade under hans stillsamma ord, och vi sl\u00e4ppte diskussionen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obalans<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Flera dagar efter det var Simon extra muckig igen, det var som om hans absolut v\u00e4rsta trotsstunder samlat sig under gemensam flagg och satt in allt de hade, men det var inte f\u00f6rr\u00e4n p\u00e5 fredagen som jag lyckades koppla ihop det med Diskussionen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi l\u00e5tsasbr\u00e5kade<\/a>, jag och Simon, och n\u00e4r han lugnat ner sig fr\u00e5gade han varf\u00f6r jag och pappa var arga p\u00e5 varandra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

”Vad menar du? Vi \u00e4r inte arga p\u00e5 varandra,” sa jag och pl\u00f6tsligt t\u00e4ndes den d\u00e4r gl\u00f6dlampan i hj\u00e4rnan. ”Menar du att vi br\u00e5kade med varandra n\u00e4r mormor var h\u00e4r?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

”Ja. Varf\u00f6r br\u00e5kade ni?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jag ins\u00e5g att han k\u00e4nde sig otrygg, och f\u00f6rklarade allt flera g\u00e5nger om. Med olika ord. St\u00f6rst vikt la jag p\u00e5 att pappa och mamma \u00e4lskar varandra, och det \u00e4ndras inte bara f\u00f6r att vi inte \u00e4r \u00f6verens om n\u00e5t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Han lyssnade tyst, st\u00e4llde n\u00e5n fr\u00e5ga och lyssnade p\u00e5 svaret. Simon \u00e4r v\u00e4ldigt empatisk men han vet inte hur han ska hantera alla starka k\u00e4nslor, s\u00e5 att han lyssnar s\u00e5 pass noga betyder att han har grubblat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mucket sl\u00e4ppte dagen d\u00e4rp\u00e5. Det \u00e4r fascinerande hur tydligt det kan vara med vissa saker ibland.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jag ska aldrig mer hetsdiskutera med Bj\u00f6rn inom h\u00f6rh\u00e5ll f\u00f6r barnen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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