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Utbrott deluxe<\/h2>\n

Adrians j\u00e4rnvilja ger upphov till utbrott deluxe i badrummet p\u00e5 kv\u00e4llarna, s\u00e4rskilt n\u00e4r det \u00e4r Bj\u00f6rn som f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker borsta t\u00e4nder\/kl\u00e4 av\/byta bl\u00f6ja\/sm\u00f6rja in\/kl\u00e4 p\u00e5\/vad som helst. Bj\u00f6rn \u00e4r envis som synden, han med, s\u00e5 de frontalkrockar och s\u00e5 st\u00e5r de och st\u00e5ngas och m\u00e4ter sina viljor medan Adrian blir mer och mer utom sig.<\/p>\n

Bj\u00f6rn g\u00f6r inget fel, han g\u00f6r det bara p\u00e5 sitt s\u00e4tt och tycker att det \u00e4r f\u00f6r h*lvete samma rutin varenda kv\u00e4ll, det kan om\u00f6jligen komma som en \u00f6verraskning osv., och detta passar inte lille monsieur. S\u00e5 han skriker.<\/p>\n

Inte det d\u00e4r falsettskriket som alla sm\u00e5barn utrustats med, utan ett fullkomligt hysteriskt, desperat, \u00e5ngestfyllt, ilsket och f\u00f6rtvivlat vr\u00e5lande av tv\u00e5 ord: ”mamma” och ”nej”.<\/p>\n

Det h\u00e4r v\u00e4cker v\u00e4ldigt mycket k\u00e4nslor hos mig som jag g\u00f6r mitt b\u00e4sta f\u00f6r att l\u00e4gga band p\u00e5 men, ja … jag blir distraherad. Hans skrik tar tv\u00e5 stadiga tag om mammahj\u00e4rtat och vrider det till tusen n\u00e5lar. Hj\u00e4rtat h\u00f6r att mitt barn tror att han h\u00e5ller p\u00e5 att d\u00f6, att han blir misshandlad, att han om och om igen f\u00f6rtvivlat ber att hans mor ska r\u00e4dda honom men hon kommer inte till unds\u00e4ttning, hon sviker honom p\u00e5 avgrundens rand och v\u00e4nder honom ryggen.<\/p>\n

Att hantera, eller inte hantera …<\/h2>\n

Det som resten av mig f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker upplysa hj\u00e4rtat om \u00e4r att underg\u00e5ngen ifr\u00e5ga best\u00e5r av ett, av den fylliga od\u00f6ren att d\u00f6ma, h\u00f6geligen n\u00f6dv\u00e4ndigt bl\u00f6jbyte samt tandborstning. Badrummet \u00e4r ganska litet och spektaklet utspelar sig alldeles intill mig och Simon, som b\u00e5da f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker tilltala offret med j\u00e4mna mellanrum och skjuta in lite avbrytande energi i vansinnet. Det har noll effekt, f\u00f6r att inte s\u00e4ga negativ.<\/p>\n

Det finns kv\u00e4llar n\u00e4r jag \u00f6vermannas av mina k\u00e4nslor och erbjuder mig att byta plats med Bj\u00f6rn, som rycker p\u00e5 axlarna och s\u00e4ger ”visst”. Min hj\u00e4rtekrossare kastar sig i min famn och blir med ens tyst, lutar huvudet mot min axel och kramar mig h\u00e5rt, h\u00e5rt. ”Mamma,” s\u00e4ger han mjukt och mitt hj\u00e4rta gr\u00e5ter av k\u00e4rleksoverload och nederlag. Sen m\u00e5ste jag borsta hans t\u00e4nder och det protesteras och tar tid, men jag \u00e4r lite vigare i inst\u00e4llning och attackplan \u00e4n min \u00e4lskade sambo s\u00e5 jag kan parera ungen lite b\u00e4ttre. Han f\u00e5r inte<\/em> som han vill, men han hinner med.<\/p>\n

Det finns flera saker h\u00e4r som g\u00f6r att det \u00e4r s\u00e5 sv\u00e5rt att palla med. Dels att han s\u00e5 tydligt favoriserar mig \u00f6ver sin far; det \u00e4r som om han f\u00f6rs\u00f6kte f\u00e5 med mig i sitt lag mot pappa och Den Fruktansv\u00e4rda Hygienen. Jag blir ledsen f\u00f6r b\u00e5da deras skull men mest f\u00f6r Bj\u00f6rns. Det \u00e4r inte kul att vara f\u00f6rem\u00e5l f\u00f6r ”nej, inte du, jag vill inte ha dig”.<\/p>\n

Dels \u00e4r det den d\u00e4r lilla k\u00e4nslan av att manipuleras av en tv\u00e5\u00e5ring. Du som k\u00e4nner n\u00e5n som \u00e4r typ s\u00e5 gammal vet vad jag menar, f\u00f6r jag tror inte ett \u00f6gonblick p\u00e5 att v\u00e5r lilla Gulleskrutt<\/em> \u00e4r ensam om principen i sitt angen\u00e4ma kv\u00e4llsbeteende.<\/p>\n

”Inte!”<\/p>\n

”Vadd\u00e5 inte?”<\/p>\n

”Inte bullegutt!”<\/p>\n

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