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\"feminister\"<\/a>
Klicka p\u00e5 bilden f\u00f6r att l\u00e4sa Emmas \u00e5terigen tr\u00e4ffs\u00e4kra artikel.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Let go … then what ?<\/a><\/p>\n

Mina social skills har lite kvar att l\u00e4ra<\/h2>\n

”Mina pojkar ska bli feminister!” f\u00f6rkunnade jag med rak ton och stadig \u00f6gonkontakt med min v\u00e4ns nya karl, en timme efter att vi presenterats f\u00f6r varandra. Inte fr\u00e5n ingenstans, f\u00f6rst\u00e5s; han har en 4-\u00e5rig dotter sedan tidigare och vi pratade om … ja, jag minns inte exakt, men barnrelaterat var det och mitt st\u00e4llningstagande var relevant i sammanhanget \u2013 tyckte jag.<\/p>\n

Han s\u00e5g p\u00e5 mig med distans i blicken, hela hans kroppsspr\u00e5k sa att han var p\u00e5 sin vakt och jag blev, igen och tyv\u00e4rr, tvungen att f\u00f6rklara att det \u00e4r skillnad mellan feminist och manshatare.<\/p>\n

N\u00e4r det v\u00e4l gick upp f\u00f6r honom att jag helt enkelt h\u00e4vdar lika r\u00e4ttigheter, lika villkor och l\u00f6n f\u00f6r lika arbete, kvinnans r\u00e4tt att inte f\u00e5 sin kl\u00e4dsel (bland annat) ifr\u00e5gasatt i samband med en v\u00e5ldt\u00e4kt, liksom min egen och alla andra kvinnors r\u00e4ttighet till lika stort utrymme som vilken (normal) man som helst utan att smutskastas och f\u00e5 h\u00f6ra ”bitch” mumlat fr\u00e5n halvt bortv\u00e4nda ansikten och s\u00e5 vidare \u2013 den h\u00e4r listan kan g\u00f6ras kilometerl\u00e5ng men du f\u00f6rst\u00e5r vad jag menar \u2013 s\u00e5 mjuknade han tveksamt igen. Han var inte s\u00e4ker p\u00e5 att han ville anv\u00e4nda ordet ”feminist” p\u00e5 det s\u00e4ttet.<\/p>\n

Jag f\u00f6rst\u00e5r inte varf\u00f6r det ska ta emot s\u00e5 h\u00e5rt med det h\u00e4r ordet. F\u00f6r mig \u00e4r det m\u00e4rkligt n\u00e4r man idag, och s\u00e4rskilt efter #metoo, undviker att ta det i sin mun.<\/p>\n

Det h\u00e4r blir inte ett s\u00e5nt inl\u00e4gg, men lite kort bara<\/h2>\n

Jag kommer inte skriva ett genomt\u00e4nkt inl\u00e4gg med v\u00e4lformulerade argument, det finns det m\u00e5nga andra* som g\u00f6r s\u00e5 mycket b\u00e4ttre \u00e4n jag, men jag vill \u00e4nd\u00e5 s\u00e4ga n\u00e5gra korta saker:<\/p>\n