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S\u00e5nt m\u00e4rker man inte n\u00e4r man \u00e4r hemma; hur man sakta men s\u00e4kert f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras och anpassar sig till den dramatiska f\u00f6r\u00e4ndring som familjebildning alltid \u00e4r.\u00a0Jag hade trott att studierna skulle bli S\u00c5 tunga efter 3 \u00e5r av en i princip oavbruten kedja av graviditeter, f\u00f6r\u00e4ldraledighet och amningshormoner, men… det \u00e4r en ny Lisa som m\u00f6ter mig p\u00e5 andra sidan. Flummigt som fan.<\/p>\n

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D\u00e5<\/h2>\n

Jag \u00e4r inte k\u00e4nd i min bekantskapskrets som den mest vakna, kvicka, uppdaterade och uppstyrda medlemmen. Snarare tv\u00e4rtom. Jag \u00e4r distr\u00e4, jag kommer p\u00e5 bra svar p\u00e5 saker typ 2 timmar senare, \u00e4r mycket seg i mina k\u00e4nsloreaktioner och inte impulsiv… Oimpulsiv \u00e4r inte ett ord, va? ”Bet\u00e4nksam” kanske passar b\u00e4ttre.<\/p>\n

F\u00f6r\u00e4ndring<\/h2>\n

Sm\u00e5barnslivet verkar ha smugit in ett effektivitetsdriv i min personlighet utan att jag lagt m\u00e4rke till det. Allting m\u00e5ste effektiviseras, och jag reflekterar inte ens \u00f6ver att jag resonerar s\u00e5.<\/p>\n

Nu har jag g\u00e5tt p\u00e5 utbildningen i 2 m\u00e5nader. P\u00e5 2 m\u00e5nader har jag f\u00e5tt h\u00f6ra kommentarer, allts\u00e5 s\u00e5d\u00e4r som man alltid f\u00e5r i nya forum n\u00e4r folk ska l\u00e4ra k\u00e4nna varandra, p\u00e5 hur jag uppfattas som inte alls st\u00e4mmer \u00f6verens med min sj\u00e4lvbild.<\/p>\n

M\u00e4rk v\u00e4l, det \u00e4r inte d\u00e5liga saker jag f\u00e5r h\u00f6ra, bara fr\u00e4mmande. N\u00e4r en tjej, \u00e4ldre \u00e4n mig och trebarnsmor, tyckte att jag var en naturlig projektledare (det var inte ens ironi heller! (Tror jag?)) s\u00e5 exploderade jag av skratt i mitt huvud. N\u00e4r en annan, som jag k\u00e4nner \u00e4nnu s\u00e4mre, vid n\u00e5t tillf\u00e4lle anklagade mig f\u00f6r att vara en naturbeg\u00e5vning i CAD (konstruktionsprogram) s\u00e5 t\u00e4nkte jag att jomenvisst gumman, tro j\u00e4tteg\u00e4rna det.<\/p>\n

Vi grupparbetar mycket, och jag h\u00e5ller p\u00e5 och ska strukturera folk och deras arbete, och styra upp, ringa in problem och l\u00f6sa dem genom att ge andra mer jobb (b\u00e4sta s\u00e4ttet att sj\u00e4lv slippa de sv\u00e5ra delarna). Jag f\u00f6resl\u00e5r, andra f\u00f6ljer \u2013 m\u00f6jligen f\u00f6r att jag g\u00f6r det enklare f\u00f6r dem (?).<\/p>\n

Nu<\/h2>\n

Grejen \u00e4r att… jag blir f\u00f6rvirrad. Jag m\u00e4rker trots allt att saker och ting i allm\u00e4nhet \u00e4r enklare utanf\u00f6r hemmet nuf\u00f6rtiden. Som om jag hade v\u00e4rre bekymmer att l\u00f6sa innanf\u00f6r hemmets 4 v\u00e4ggar (vilket jag inte har) s\u00e5 att allt annat framst\u00e5r som enkelt, eller som om min hj\u00e4rna nu har gjort attack mode<\/em> till sin standardinst\u00e4llning.<\/p>\n

Jag k\u00e4nner inte igen mig. Jag \u00e4r visserligen ganska f\u00f6rtjust att uppt\u00e4cka dessa nya sidor hos mig sj\u00e4lv, och det g\u00f6r f\u00f6rst\u00e5s underverk med sj\u00e4lvf\u00f6rtroende och allm\u00e4nt m\u00e5ende.<\/p>\n

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