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Att du \u00e4r tr\u00f6tt g\u00f6r inte mig pigg<\/h2>\n

Jag \u00e4lskar min man. Jag vill leva med honom resten av mitt liv, jag hoppas vi f\u00e5r bli gamla tillsammans och se v\u00e5ra barnbarn v\u00e4xa upp. D\u00e4r r\u00e5der inga tvivel.<\/p>\n

Men…<\/p>\n

Det var ju det h\u00e4r med vardagslivet. De sm\u00e5 sakerna betyder s\u00e5 mycket, brukar man s\u00e4ga, men det \u00e4r minsann inte bara av godo. Precis lika j\u00e4kla g\u00e4rna som de d\u00e4r sm\u00e5 sakerna kan vara en blomma p\u00e5 bordet, en kram fr\u00e5n ingenstans, ett ”vad fint du har st\u00e4dat”, kan de ocks\u00e5 vara en bortgl\u00f6md puss vid s\u00e4msta t\u00e4nkbara tillf\u00e4lle, pl\u00f6tslig selektiv uppfattningsf\u00f6rm\u00e5ga av omv\u00e4rlden, eller det h\u00e4r:<\/p>\n

”Jag \u00e4r j\u00e4ttetr\u00f6tt s\u00e5 jag g\u00e5r och l\u00e4gger mig.”<\/p>\n

Det \u00e4r ett konstaterande fr\u00e5n hans sida, en upplysning.<\/p>\n

JAG \u00e4r j\u00e4ttetr\u00f6tt! JAG beh\u00f6ver kanske OCKS\u00c5 sova! ATT DU \u00c4R TR\u00d6TT G\u00d6R INTE MIG PIGG!!<\/em> \u2013 skriker jag i mitt huvud. P\u00e5 utsidan ger jag honom en elak blick, s\u00e4ger martyriskt ”ja, g\u00f6r det du”, och tjurar. Han fattar ingenting, och det hade inte jag heller gjort om jag var han.<\/p>\n

Vi n\u00f6ter p\u00e5 varandra, men hittills har vi lyckats prata om det efter\u00e5t. Missf\u00f6rst\u00e5nd klaras ut och vi l\u00e4r oss, b\u00e5da tv\u00e5. Och sen s\u00e4ger han ”jag \u00e4lskar dig”. Och sen t\u00e4nker jag att fan vad jag h\u00e5ller p\u00e5 hela tiden, jag m\u00e5ste bli sn\u00e4llare. Och sen \u00e4r jag tr\u00f6tt igen och sen g\u00f6r jag samma sak igen. Och han blir tr\u00f6tt igen och degenererar till senaste l\u00e5ngvarigt stadiga beteendem\u00f6nster igen, vilket verkar stamma fr\u00e5n tiden d\u00e5 han var singel.<\/p>\n

Och s\u00e5 h\u00e5ller vi p\u00e5.<\/p>\n

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Bildk\u00e4lla: mina \u00f6vningsuppgifter i Illustrator<\/em><\/p>\n

Save<\/span>Save<\/span>Save<\/span>Save<\/span><\/p>\n

Save<\/span>Save<\/span><\/p>\n

Save<\/span>Save<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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