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Man brukar tala om gummibandsf\u00f6rh\u00e5llande<\/h2>\n

Man talar ibland om jojo-effekt, eller gummibandsf\u00f6rh\u00e5llande; avvisa, avvisa, avvisa, avvisa, och sen \u00f6ver\u00f6s med allt bra du har i din arsenal. St\u00f6t bort \u2013 dra tillbaka.<\/p>\n

Detta manipulativa beteende hos en partner g\u00f6r det MYCKET sv\u00e5rt att ta sig ur en relation. Det tror man verkligen inte f\u00f6rr\u00e4n man sj\u00e4lv blir utsatt f\u00f6r det, och d\u00e5 fattar man inte ens att det \u00e4r det som h\u00e4nder. Jag vet av egen erfarenhet*.<\/p>\n

Applicerbart p\u00e5 alla relationer<\/h2>\n

\u00c4ven om min k\u00e4rlek \u00e4r orubblig s\u00e5 f\u00f6ljer min tillgivenhet<\/em> f\u00f6r min yngste son, nattetid, ett tydligt manipulerat beroendem\u00f6nster. Han k\u00f6r mig (oss) i botten, h\u00e5ller oss vakna hela n\u00e4tter i l\u00e4ngre perioder (dvs fler \u00e4n en natt), bara f\u00f6r att sen lugna ner sig och vara ganska mysig.<\/p>\n

N\u00e4r jag har k\u00e4mpat och strulat med honom i flera n\u00e4tter p\u00e5 raken, och s\u00e5 pl\u00f6tsligt sover (ish) han hela natten, s\u00e5 \u00e4r kontrasten enorm och min tacksamhet \u00e4nnu st\u00f6rre. Att han bara sparkat p\u00e5 mig halva natten, endast v\u00e4ckt mig 7 g\u00e5nger f\u00f6r nappassistans och brutit ihop vid bara ett (1) tillf\u00e4lle g\u00f6r att jag blir som nyf\u00f6r\u00e4lskad i honom p\u00e5 nytt.<\/p>\n

I’m the sucker<\/h2>\n

Han har allts\u00e5 f\u00e5tt mig att tycka att s\u00e5na n\u00e4tter, som jag annars skulle gr\u00e5ta \u00f6ver, \u00e4r det mysigaste som finns. Allra b\u00e4st \u00e4r n\u00e4r han st\u00f6kar mellan kl 04 och 05 s\u00e5 att jag till slut lyfter \u00f6ver honom till mig, och han liksom bara gr\u00e4ver in sina sm\u00e5 fingrar i mitt hull, goar in sig mot min kudde, sm\u00e5sparkar mig med hyfsat vassa t\u00e5naglar och somnar.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

?<\/p>\n

Det \u00e4r tur att man \u00e4lskar dem s\u00e5 mycket.<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

\n

*Inte fr\u00e5n Bj\u00f6rn, naturligtvis.<\/p>\n

Save<\/span>Save<\/span><\/p>\n

Save<\/span>Save<\/span><\/p>\n

Save<\/span>Save<\/span><\/p>\n

Save<\/span>Save<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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