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Du har s\u00e4kert sett den, Emmas seriestrip You should’ve asked<\/a>.\u00a0<\/em>Den turnerar i full karri\u00e4r p\u00e5 Facebook, jag s\u00e5g den f\u00f6rst som\u00a0Fallait demander<\/a>\u00a0<\/em>via\u00a0<\/em>en fansk v\u00e4ninnas FB-sida och t\u00e4nkte att \u00e5h herregud, om jag kunde dela med mig av den…!<\/p>\n

En dryg vecka senare\u00a0d\u00f6k den upp i engelsk version i mitt fl\u00f6de och, mina v\u00e4nner, h\u00e4r finns s\u00e5 mycket att s\u00e4ga nu att jag knappt\u00a0vet vad jag ska s\u00e4ga.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>
La charge mentale \/\/ The mental load \/\/ Emmaclit.com<\/a><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Klicka p\u00e5 bilden eller l\u00e4nken och l\u00e4s hela, f\u00f6r den \u00e4r S\u00e5. J\u00e4kla. Bra.<\/p>\n

\u00c4ven Bj\u00f6rn k\u00e4nner igen sig<\/h2>\n

Bj\u00f6rn s\u00e5g den ocks\u00e5, l\u00e4ste den, fr\u00e5gade mig om jag hade sett den, och s\u00e5 blev den utg\u00e5ngspunkt f\u00f6r en ganska l\u00e5ng diskussion om hur vi upplever v\u00e5r vardag, han och jag. Vissa bilder fick jag f\u00f6rklara f\u00f6r honom \u2013 eller jag f\u00f6rs\u00f6kte i alla fall \u2013 men \u00f6ver lag kunde han \u00e4nd\u00e5 se vad jag menar n\u00e4r jag s\u00e4ger saker som att ”det K\u00c4NNS \u00a0som att om jag inte t\u00e4nker p\u00e5 n\u00e5t, s\u00e5 blir det inte gjort\/ det K\u00c4NNS som att du inte h\u00f6r mig n\u00e4r jag ber om hj\u00e4lp” och s\u00e5 vidare.<\/p>\n

F\u00f6r samma ord har l\u00e4mnat \u00e4ven hans l\u00e4ppar; ”n\u00e4 men ass\u00e5 jag antar ju att du s\u00e4ger till om du vill ha hj\u00e4lp med n\u00e5t”. Det \u00e4r inte hans fel, eller mitt, men det \u00e4r ett problem b\u00e5de hemma hos oss och m\u00e5nga andra, och kan man inte s\u00e4tta fingret p\u00e5 det s\u00e5 \u00e4r det sv\u00e5rt att ens prata om det. Ist\u00e4llet blir vi irriterade, slutk\u00f6rda, ledsna \u00e4nda in i skelettet och of\u00f6rm\u00f6gna att kommunicera p\u00e5 ett konstruktivt vis.<\/p>\n

Tack<\/h2>\n

Jag \u00e4r glad f\u00f6r den h\u00e4r seriestripen, eller texten, eller vad man nu kallar s\u00e5nt h\u00e4r. Jag kunde inte l\u00e4sa tyst utan satt och sa ”Precis. Ja! Exakt. MEN JAG S\u00c4GER JU DET!!!” om vartannat. Tack vare den kunde jag illustrera varf\u00f6r det k\u00e4nns som att han s\u00e4tter sig i baks\u00e4tet s\u00e5 ofta, och l\u00e4mnar mig ensam i\u00a0f\u00f6rarstolen.<\/p>\n

Sv\u00e5rt att l\u00e5ta bli<\/h2>\n

Men<\/em>… Det \u00e4r sv\u00e5rt att INTE axla rollen som projektledare i hemmet n\u00e4r man tillbringar 14000% mer tid d\u00e4r \u00e4n den andre. Snart nog kommer Bj\u00f6rn vara den som stirrar sig blind p\u00e5 tv\u00e4ttkorgar, disk och bebiskladd medan jag \u00e4r borta om dagarna. Skillnaden d\u00e5 kommer d\u00e4remot vara att jag kommer ha hans situation i f\u00e4rskt minne.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Det blir oj\u00e4mnt hur man \u00e4n g\u00f6r. Ofta blir det som Emma skriver:<\/p>\n

It will feel less exhausting to keep doing everything rather than to battle with our\u00a0partner so that he does his share.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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En dryg vecka senare\u00a0d\u00f6k den upp i engelsk version i mitt fl\u00f6de och, mina v\u00e4nner, h\u00e4r finns […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,9],"tags":[2503,2502,2501],"class_list":["post-4906","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tips-tricks","category-vardagstrams","tag-arbetsfordelning","tag-lastips","tag-tips"],"yoast_head":"\nDu s\u00e4ger v\u00e4l till om du vill ha hj\u00e4lp -<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"F\u00f6r samma ord har l\u00e4mnat \u00e4ven hans l\u00e4ppar; "n\u00e4 men ass\u00e5 jag antar ju att du s\u00e4ger till om du vill ha hj\u00e4lp med n\u00e5t". 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