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Anna hade en helvetesvecka bakom sig med mycket stress och lite s\u00f6mn, och n\u00e4r hon och hennes \u00e4lskade tilldelades g\u00e4strummet p\u00e5 \u00f6verv\u00e5ningen med en s\u00e4ng fr\u00e5n 1923 med, visade det sig, ORIGINALMADRASS*, s\u00e5 blev det inte mycket till sova alls.<\/p>\n<p>Dagen f\u00f6r hemf\u00e4rd, efter att Anna\u00a0l\u00e5tit sp\u00e4nd \u00f6ver n\u00e5got, tog sv\u00e4rmodern henne \u00e5t sidan och sade (jag ryser n\u00e4r jag ber\u00e4ttar det) n\u00e5got som betydde att de \u00e4lskar sin son och de vill \u00e4lska henne, men att hon g\u00f6r det sv\u00e5rt f\u00f6r dem.<\/p>\n<p>Fan, t\u00e4nk dig att f\u00e5 h\u00f6ra det&#8230;!<\/p>\n<h2>Barnens farmor<\/h2>\n<p>Bj\u00f6rns mamma \u00e4r inget av det d\u00e4r. 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Hade han l\u00e4mnat mig ensam i konflikten vete sjutton om jag hade fixat att bilda familj med honom&#8230; men nu k\u00e4nner jag honom tillr\u00e4ckligt v\u00e4l f\u00f6r att veta att han hade st\u00f6ttat mig, men\u00a0f\u00f6rs\u00f6kt att inte sj\u00e4lv dras\u00a0in i det.<\/p>\n<p>Men nu \u00e4r ju inte det aktuellt \u00e4nd\u00e5, och jag vet att jag \u00e4r lyckligt lottad som inte beh\u00f6ver hantera relationsproblem av den d\u00e4r sorten.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>*Originalmadrass fr\u00e5n 1923! H\u00e5rd som golvet med kn\u00f6lar som l\u00e4mnar bl\u00e5m\u00e4rken p\u00e5 revbenen. T\u00e4nk vad den madrassen m\u00e5ste ha sett mycket i sina dar. Sv\u00e4rf\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna f\u00f6rst\u00e5r inte heller hur det kan vara ett bekymmer, de t\u00e4nker s\u00e4kert att &#8221;det var b\u00e4ttre f\u00f6rr&#8221; och g\u00e5r <em>all in<\/em> f\u00f6r det. 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