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Det dystra i att vara nykl\u00e4ckt sm\u00e5barnsf\u00f6r\u00e4lder till pseudotvillingar \u00e4r att det \u00e4r s\u00e5 sv\u00e5rt att k\u00e4nna att man r\u00e4cker till. Jag hade faktiskt inte kunnat f\u00f6rest\u00e4lla mig, konkret, till vilken grad och p\u00e5\u00a0vilka s\u00e4tt det skulle bli tyngre med 2 sm\u00e5 pojkar hemma j\u00e4mf\u00f6rt med en.<\/p>\n

En bra dag, f\u00f6r barnens del, s\u00e5 turas de om att sova. P\u00e5 det s\u00e4ttet f\u00e5r de mig f\u00f6r sig sj\u00e4lva n\u00e4r de \u00e4r vakna eftersom den andre antingen sover eller \u00e4r p\u00e5 f\u00f6ris. Adrian \u00e4r fortfarande f\u00f6r liten f\u00f6r att de ska ha s\u00e5 stort utbyte av varandra.<\/p>\n

En bra dag, f\u00f6r min del, s\u00e5 sover de samtidigt. D\u00e5 kan jag vila ikapp det jag f\u00f6rlorat under natten och vara en b\u00e4ttre version av mig sj\u00e4lv, dvs ha liiite mer \u00e4n tillr\u00e4ckligt med t\u00e5lamod, n\u00e4r vi \u00e4r alla tillsammans.<\/p>\n

Fr\u00e5gan \u00e4r vilket som egentligen \u00e4r b\u00e4st, ur deras synvinkel. Ingen av dem kan prata s\u00e5 jag kan inte bara fr\u00e5ga dem.<\/p>\n

Min husl\u00e4kare sa, aprop\u00e5 att jag \u00e4r s\u00e5 tr\u00f6tt, s\u00e5 h\u00e4r:<\/p>\n

”Det finns ett rum\u00e4nskt ordspr\u00e5k som s\u00e4ger att med pappa f\u00f6rsvinner pengarna, med mamma f\u00f6rsvinner allt. Det \u00e4r kanske lite gammalmodigt…”<\/p>\n

”N\u00e5got…”<\/p>\n

”…men det ligger mycket i det. VEM \u00e4r den viktigaste personen f\u00f6r dina barn? Lisa, vem?”<\/p>\n

”Jag…?”<\/p>\n

”Just det. T\u00e4nk p\u00e5 det.”<\/p>\n

Och det g\u00f6r jag. Eller f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker, i alla fall. Vi \u00e4r tv\u00e5 f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar med lika v\u00e4rde, men ingen av oss kan ta den andras plats. Pappa kan inte fylla mammas skor och tv\u00e4rtom. Jag tror att n\u00e4r barnen \u00e4r s\u00e5 pass sm\u00e5, allts\u00e5 under 2 \u00e5r gamla, s\u00e5 \u00e4r mamma fortfarande den centrala punkten. Navet i livets cirkel, typ. Pappa kommer komma ikapp, och eftersom de \u00e4r pojkar kommer han antagligen springa om mig, och d\u00e5 kommer jag t\u00e4nka p\u00e5 den h\u00e4r tiden med saknad.<\/p>\n

Men just nu, h\u00e4r och nu, \u00e4r det tungt. Just nu \u00e4r jag ofta f\u00f6r tr\u00f6tt f\u00f6r att orka uppskatta min lycka. Jag m\u00e5ste komma till r\u00e4tta med s\u00f6mnen, f\u00f6r som det \u00e4r nu har jag sv\u00e5rt att sova \u00e4ven n\u00e4r jag inte blir st\u00f6rd. Jag \u00e4r liksom \u00f6vertr\u00f6ttad.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Det dystra i att vara nykl\u00e4ckt sm\u00e5barnsf\u00f6r\u00e4lder till pseudotvillingar \u00e4r att det \u00e4r s\u00e5 sv\u00e5rt att k\u00e4nna att man r\u00e4cker till. Jag hade faktiskt inte kunnat f\u00f6rest\u00e4lla mig, konkret, till vilken grad och p\u00e5\u00a0vilka s\u00e4tt det skulle bli tyngre med 2 sm\u00e5 pojkar hemma j\u00e4mf\u00f6rt med en. En bra dag, f\u00f6r barnens del, s\u00e5 turas […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[141,1769,1770,1658,1659],"class_list":["post-4574","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-vardagstrams","tag-overtrott","tag-smabarnsliv","tag-smabarnsnatter","tag-somnbrist","tag-somnproblem"],"yoast_head":"\nMed pappa f\u00f6rsvinner pengarna, med mamma f\u00f6rsvinner allt -<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\""Det finns ett rum\u00e4nskt ordspr\u00e5k som s\u00e4ger att med pappa f\u00f6rsvinner pengarna, med mamma f\u00f6rsvinner allt. 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