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Ibland k\u00e4nns det som att det \u00e4r jag som s\u00e4tter upp reglerna h\u00e4r hemma och Bj\u00f6rn som r\u00e4ttar sig efter dem. Inte s\u00e5 att jag inte lyssnar om han tycker saker, f\u00f6r det g\u00f6r jag, det \u00e4r bara det att det mest \u00e4r jag som tycker saker. N\u00e4r han var f\u00f6r\u00e4ldraledig tyckte han mycket mer, jag antar att det ing\u00e5r\u00a0i arbetsuppgifterna som hemmaf\u00f6r\u00e4lder att stirra sig blind p\u00e5 saker och ha starka \u00e5sikter om dem.<\/p>\n

Anyway… Jag vill inte br\u00e5ka med honom, men du vet n\u00e4r man \u00e4r hemma hela dagarna och inte sover bra (alls) p\u00e5 n\u00e4tterna och man liksom siktar p\u00e5 n\u00e4r ens partner ska komma hem och man kan slappna av lite grann, och s\u00e5 liksom… ja, s\u00e5 liksom f\u00e5r man inte det.<\/p>\n

F\u00f6rsta spontana tanken n\u00e4r det inte blir som jag t\u00e4nkt \u00e4r att sura och s\u00e4ga precis<\/em> vad jag tycker om saker och ting. Nu vet jag att mina f\u00f6rsta intryck nu f\u00f6r tiden inte \u00e4r att lita p\u00e5, s\u00e5 jag tjurar i tysthet ett tag och attackerar sedan fr\u00e5n ett lite mer diplomatiskt h\u00e5ll:<\/p>\n

”\u00c4lskling, vi beh\u00f6ver prata ihop oss lite. Vad har du f\u00f6r f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar p\u00e5 din tid hemma p\u00e5 kv\u00e4llen efter jobbet?”<\/p>\n

Kan man vara luddigare? Jag fick utveckla genom att svara p\u00e5 min egen fr\u00e5ga:<\/p>\n

”Mina<\/em> f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntningar, till exempel, \u00e4r att n\u00e4r du kommer hem s\u00e5 \u00e4r vi tillsammans alla fyra tills Simon g\u00e5r och l\u00e4gger sig. Om vi inte \u00e4r \u00f6verens d\u00e4r, s\u00e5 m\u00e5ste vi komma \u00f6verens om n\u00e5t annat f\u00f6r annars kommer jag bli besviken och sur varenda kv\u00e4ll i on\u00f6dan.”<\/p>\n

Bj\u00f6rn, totalt avv\u00e4pnad, h\u00f6ll med. Vad ska han annars g\u00f6ra? Han sa att han inte har landat i att vara tv\u00e5barnsf\u00f6r\u00e4lder och att det per konsekvens inneb\u00e4r att vi har 2 barn hemma nu, och att han inte f\u00e5tt in rutin p\u00e5 det. Det f\u00f6rst\u00e5r jag f\u00f6r det har inte jag heller. Det \u00e4r sv\u00e5rare \u00e4n man tror. Inte s\u00e5 att man gl\u00f6mmer att ett av barnen finns, utan snarare att vi inte l\u00e4rt oss \u00e4n vad det inneb\u00e4r i praktiken<\/em> att de \u00e4r tv\u00e5.<\/p>\n

H\u00e4rom kv\u00e4llen, allts\u00e5, l\u00e4rde vi oss till exempel att en av sakerna som detta inneb\u00e4r \u00e4r att man inte kan avl\u00e4gsna sig utan att s\u00e4ga till. \u00c4ven om det \u00e4r f\u00f6r att betala en f\u00f6rsenad r\u00e4kning. Uppenbart, kan tyckas, men n\u00e4r man v\u00e4l st\u00e5r d\u00e4r \u00e4r det inte s\u00e5 enkelt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ibland k\u00e4nns det som att det \u00e4r jag som s\u00e4tter upp reglerna h\u00e4r hemma och Bj\u00f6rn som r\u00e4ttar sig efter dem. Inte s\u00e5 att jag inte lyssnar om han tycker saker, f\u00f6r det g\u00f6r jag, det \u00e4r bara det att det mest \u00e4r jag som tycker saker. N\u00e4r han var f\u00f6r\u00e4ldraledig tyckte han mycket mer, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[575,576,1965,2245],"class_list":["post-3675","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-vardagstrams","tag-foraldraledig","tag-foraldraledighet","tag-tjafs","tag-vardagsrutiner"],"yoast_head":"\nAtt f\u00e5 snurr p\u00e5 vardagen som tv\u00e5barnsf\u00f6r\u00e4lder -<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"att han inte har landat i att vara tv\u00e5barnsf\u00f6r\u00e4lder 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