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Jag skrev att jag funderade p\u00e5 n\u00e5t f\u00f6rut. This is it.<\/p>\n

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Vi har t\u00e4nkt l\u00e4nge att vi vill ha barn t\u00e4tt. Det finns flera anledningar, men mest handlar det om planering. Livsplanering. Ingen av oss blir yngre (h\u00f6r och h\u00e4pna), kanske tar det tid den andra g\u00e5ngen \u2013 trots att man brukar h\u00e4vda motsatsen \u2013 och om jag vill studera s\u00e5 \u00e4r alternativet ett syskonglapp p\u00e5 ca 6 \u00e5r.<\/p>\n

Det \u00e4r 6 \u00e5r mellan Bj\u00f6rn och hans bror, och s\u00e5 vill inte Bj\u00f6rn ha det med v\u00e5ra barn. Inte jag heller, s\u00e5 klart. Det \u00e4r 3,5 \u00e5r mellan mig och lillebror, och jag tror definitivt att mer hade varit f\u00f6r mycket. Diskussionen om vilket avst\u00e5nd mellan syskon som \u00e4r det ultimata kan g\u00f6ras j\u00e4ttel\u00e5ng, det finns f\u00f6r- och nackdelar med allt s\u00e5 i slut\u00e4ndan tror jag bara det handlar om att v\u00e4lja vad som \u00e4r r\u00e4tt f\u00f6r just v\u00e5r familj \u2013 och fatta vad man ger sig in p\u00e5.<\/p>\n

Men nu \u00e4r det s\u00e5 att vi ska till Thailand i mars, och i Thailand har Zikaviruset bott sedan 50-talet. Vi best\u00e4mde d\u00e5 att vi k\u00f6r Thailand, njuter av v\u00e5r semester fullt ut och s\u00e5d\u00e4r och s\u00e5 f\u00e5r vi se sen efter det.<\/p>\n

Det var typ 6 veckor sedan. Och ja, man kan tycka att vi borde ha f\u00e5tt upp \u00f6gonen f\u00f6r situationen tidigare men nu blev det inte s\u00e5. F\u00f6r 6 veckor sedan var jag redan gravid, visade det sig f\u00f6rrf\u00f6rra m\u00e5ndagen.<\/p>\n

Ja.<\/p>\n

Jag trodde inte p\u00e5 det, mensen var sen men jag hade ju mensv\u00e4rk och visste<\/em> att jag inte var gravid. Tanken kom smygande dagen f\u00f6re Alla Hj\u00e4rtans Dag, och jag b\u00f6rjade fantisera om att sl\u00e5 in ett graviditetstest och ge Bj\u00f6rn i present, p\u00e5 skoj. Som en kul grej. Men jag visste ju att det inte var s\u00e5. P\u00e5 m\u00e5ndagen h\u00f6ll jag p\u00e5 att bli orolig. T\u00e4nk om? D\u00e5 skulle vi inte kunna \u00e5ka till Thailand. Jag gick in p\u00e5 apoteket efter tr\u00e4ningen och k\u00f6pte ett test av deras eget m\u00e4rke, bara f\u00f6r att f\u00e5 det svart p\u00e5 vitt att jag inte var gravid och kunna stryka tankarna p\u00e5 det. N\u00e4r jag kommit hem och lagt Simon gjordes testet och det visade positivt efter ungef\u00e4r 2 sekunder. Jag stirrade misstroget p\u00e5 det, och best\u00e4mde mig f\u00f6r att det var trasigt. Under eftermiddagspromenaden gick vi till ett annat apotek, och k\u00f6pte ett annat dyrare test, av ett v\u00e4lk\u00e4nt m\u00e4rke (k\u00e4nda m\u00e4rken kan inte ha fel). \u00c4ven detta visade positivt. Jag stirrade misstroget p\u00e5 det och best\u00e4mde mig f\u00f6r att det var ju fantastiskt, hur stor var chansen, egentligen, att 2 test av olika m\u00e4rken som k\u00f6ps p\u00e5 olika apotek av samma person b\u00e5da skulle vara defekta? Coolt.<\/p>\n

Det landade hos mig p\u00e5 kv\u00e4llen. Jag laddade ner gravidappen, tecknade gratis-gravidf\u00f6rs\u00e4kringen, och n\u00e4r Bj\u00f6rn kom hem sa jag ingenting. Jag visste inte hur jag skulle ber\u00e4tta det; n\u00e4r jag ber\u00e4ttade f\u00f6r honom f\u00f6rra g\u00e5ngen<\/a> blev det lite tokigt. S\u00e5\u00e5\u00e5, p\u00e5 kv\u00e4llen n\u00e4r Simon somnat och vi kr\u00f6p ner i soffan f\u00f6r att se p\u00e5 tv, s\u00e5 sa jag, som s\u00e5 ofta:<\/p>\n

”Du, jag m\u00e5ste visa dig en grej.”<\/p>\n

Jag tog upp min mobil, \u00f6ppnade appen och h\u00f6ll fram sk\u00e4rmen mot honom:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Han stirrade p\u00e5 sk\u00e4rmen, och n\u00e4r poletten trillade ner sa han ”Oj!”, och flinade brett.<\/p>\n

Nu \u00e4r jag i vecka 8. I 2 veckor har jag vetat om detta, och under den tiden har jag m\u00e5tt gradvis s\u00e4mre och s\u00e4mre. Och s\u00e4mre. Men jag m\u00e5r i alla fall inte lika illa som sist, och jag tackar Universum p\u00e5 min mentala b\u00f6nematta f\u00f6r varje dag som g\u00e5r d\u00e5 jag slipper m\u00e5 som jag gjorde d\u00e5<\/a>. D\u00e5 var det s\u00e5 illa, att jag till och med under f\u00f6rlossningen kunde stanna upp och p\u00e5minna mig sj\u00e4lv om att ”jag m\u00e5r i alla fall inte illa”.<\/p>\n

Kanske har det med att g\u00f6ra att jag vet hur hemskt det kan bli, att jag \u00e4r mer f\u00f6rberedd den h\u00e4r g\u00e5ngen och allts\u00e5 inte upplever det likadant.<\/p>\n

Risken f\u00f6r missfall \u00e4r stor s\u00e5h\u00e4r tidigt i graviditeten, det \u00e4r d\u00e4rf\u00f6r som de flesta v\u00e4ntar till vecka 12 med att ber\u00e4tta, men jag k\u00e4nner inte att det spelar n\u00e5gon roll den h\u00e4r g\u00e5ngen. F\u00e5r jag missfall s\u00e5 f\u00e5r jag, det kommer inte att vara mitt fel, jag kommer att bli ledsen men det kommer inte att vara tabu att prata med mig om det.<\/p>\n

Thailand \u00e4r avbokat, vi styr mot Kanarie\u00f6arna ist\u00e4llet ?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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