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Playa de las Am\u00e9ricas, Teneriffa<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sedan jag b\u00f6rjade m\u00e5 illa har tillvaron varit ganska k\u00e4mpig, men nu n\u00e4r det \u00e4r b\u00e4ttre ser jag effekterna av det.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e5 plussidan har vi Bj\u00f6rn, som tvingats ta det st\u00f6rre ansvaret av oss, som f\u00f6r\u00e4lder. Han har blivit j\u00e4ttebra p\u00e5 det; han h\u00e5ller reda p\u00e5 hur l\u00e4nge Simon har sovit, vad och n\u00e4r han \u00e5t sist och packar b\u00e5de sk\u00f6tv\u00e4ska och vagn utan att fr\u00e5ga mig om vad som ska vara i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jag har kunnat luta mig tillbaka och \u00e4gna mig \u00e5t att m\u00e5 uruselt. Jag har lekt med Simon liggande i soffan, g\u00e5tt n\u00e5n enstaka promenad, legat p\u00e5 en madrass i hans rum medan han har lekt runt och p\u00e5 mig och annat liknanade i f\u00f6rs\u00f6k att inte f\u00f6rsvinna… men man kan vara fr\u00e5nvarande utan att f\u00f6r den skull vara borta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e5 minussidan har vi n\u00e4mligen Simon. Han tyr sig s\u00e5 klart till den som tillhandah\u00e5ller mat, s\u00f6mn och aktivitet, och det har varit Bj\u00f6rn i flera veckor. Jag som alltid har varit ”huvudf\u00f6r\u00e4lder” (och Bj\u00f6rn mer som en farbror) har t\u00e4nkt att det inte \u00e4r s\u00e5 stort som det k\u00e4nts, att det \u00e4r \u00f6verg\u00e5ngen till att vara en av 2 lika som inte g\u00e5tt obem\u00e4rkt f\u00f6rbi f\u00f6r mig \u2013 dvs it’s in my head. I morse h\u00e4r p\u00e5 frukosten gick det \u00e4ntligen upp f\u00f6r mig att nej, det \u00e4r inte bara i mitt huvud utan det \u00e4r verklighet. Bj\u00f6rn reste sig f\u00f6r att g\u00e5 och h\u00e4mta mer mat, och Simon tittade efter honom l\u00e4nge efter att han f\u00f6rsvunnit ur synh\u00e5ll. Sedan tittade han p\u00e5 allt utom mig tills Bj\u00f6rn kom tillbaka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det k\u00e4nns i mammahj\u00e4rtat. Jag vet han inte g\u00f6r detta medvetet, att jag inte varit BORTA och att oavsett vad som h\u00e4nder s\u00e5 kommer jag alltid vara hans mor, ingenting kan \u00e4ndra p\u00e5 det, men det \u00e4r inte s\u00e5 kul att hamna s\u00e5 i skuggan av sin partner s\u00e5 jag best\u00e4mde d\u00e4r och d\u00e5 att nu f\u00e5r det vara nog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

”Jag m\u00e5ste engagera mig mer i Simon”, sa jag n\u00e4r Bj\u00f6rn kom tillbaka, och f\u00f6rklarade varf\u00f6r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

”Men du har ju inte haft n\u00e5t val”, sa han som f\u00f6r att f\u00f6rsvara mig f\u00f6r att jag inte varit s\u00e5 delaktig. Nu d\u00e4remot s\u00e5 har jag det.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Utmaningen blir att hitta en balans oss emellan som funkar s\u00e5 att alla trivs. Hur sjutton g\u00f6r man det?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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