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Alla k\u00e4rleksrelationer f\u00f6ljer samma princip och m\u00f6nster. De \u00e4r sl\u00e4kt, kan man v\u00e4l s\u00e4ga:<\/p>\n

F\u00f6rst har vi f\u00f6r\u00e4lskelsefasen<\/strong>, den d\u00e4r man tillbringar mycket tid med den d\u00e4r nya polaren och uppt\u00e4cker att man tycker lika om s\u00e5 mycket och alltid har roligt tillsammans, eller n\u00e4r man blir t\u00e5r\u00f6gd i hemlighet n\u00e4r man m\u00e5ste l\u00e4mna sin \u00e4lskare f\u00f6r att g\u00e5 till jobbet eller vara borta fr\u00e5n varandra i flera dagar<\/em> innan man kan ses och bara snusa varandra i nacken (m.m.) igen.<\/p>\n

Sen kommer skiftet<\/strong>, slutet p\u00e5 f\u00f6r\u00e4lskelsen, d\u00e5 man inte tr\u00e4ffas lika intensivt l\u00e4ngre. N\u00e4r det akuta non stopbehovet \u00e4r m\u00e4ttat, n\u00e4r man klarar av att se en film utan att missa halva, n\u00e4r man tr\u00e4ffar andra kompisar lite oftare igen.<\/p>\n

Sen kommer no man’s land<\/strong>, transportstr\u00e4ckan mot det som relationen kommer att plana ut i. Kanske en naturlig paus i umg\u00e4nget. Kanske n\u00e5gra dagars radiotystnad av ingen speciell anledning.<\/p>\n

Sen kommer resultatet. Domen<\/strong>. Ett l\u00e5ngvarigt f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande, en stabil och n\u00e4ra v\u00e4nskapsrelation som h\u00e5ller i sig resten av era dagar, fortsatt tystnad, eller ingenting d\u00e4r ingen vet varf\u00f6r egentligen.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Jag sitter p\u00e5 jobbet n\u00e4r Bj\u00f6rn skickar den h\u00e4r bilden, med texten ”Full fart i sommarv\u00e4rmen!”, till mig. Jag \u00f6ppnar bilden, f\u00f6rstorar den, solar mig i hans glada lilla v\u00e4sen, och saknar honom s\u00e5 att jag \u00e4r p\u00e5 vippen att \u00e5ka hem och kramas.<\/p>\n

Jag m\u00e5ste medge att jag fortfarande \u00e4r nyf\u00f6r\u00e4lskad i mitt barn. Det \u00e4r NATURLIGTVIS inte samma slags k\u00e4rlek som n\u00e4r man \u00e4r i b\u00f6rjan av ett fint f\u00f6rh\u00e5llande med en partner, men det \u00e4r samma akuta behov av n\u00e4rhet, samma beundrande och sj\u00e4lvutpl\u00e5nande k\u00e4rlek, samma hemligt t\u00e5rfyllda saknad och koncentrationssv\u00e5righeter.<\/p>\n

Det \u00e4r vackert, det \u00e4r fint, det \u00e4r oroande. Orkar man k\u00e4nna s\u00e5 starkt ett helt liv? Ska det vara s\u00e5h\u00e4r nu?<\/p>\n

Ah, han \u00e4r bara ett \u00e5r gammal. Om n\u00e5t \u00e5r till eller s\u00e5 b\u00f6rjar han trotsa och sen g\u00f6r han v\u00e4l det i ett par \u00e5r. D\u00e5 lugnar man s\u00e4kert ner sig lite… Jag menar inte minskad k\u00e4rlek, bara mer andra k\u00e4nslor som ocks\u00e5 m\u00e5ste f\u00e5 plats f\u00f6r att man inte ska bli vansinnig.<\/p>\n

Jag ser s\u00e5 fram emot det. Nu t\u00e4nker du kanske att jag inte vet vad jag pratar om, och det h\u00e5ller jag lyckligt ovetande med om. S\u00e5 \u00e4r det.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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