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Ig\u00e5r var jag kvar en timme l\u00e4ngre p\u00e5 jobbet. Anledningen var inte jobb, utan att min kollega som bytte av mig var s\u00e5 trevlig (vi har inte jobbat tillsammans tidigare) och vi fastnade i en diskussion om livet. Vi pratade om sj\u00e4lvinsikt, om att jobba med sig sj\u00e4lv, att utvecklas och v\u00e5ga erk\u00e4nna att kanske \u00e4r det inte bara fel p\u00e5 alla andra hela tiden. Hur det k\u00e4nns att bli \u00e4ldre, och att m\u00e4rka hur ens v\u00e4rderingar n\u00e4r det kommer till relationer f\u00f6r\u00e4ndras till n\u00e5got som f\u00f6rr k\u00e4ndes s\u00e5 avl\u00e4gset. Tiden st\u00e5r faktiskt inte stilla l\u00e4ngre. Ingen av oss blir yngre. En definition av vad vi vill ha och inte blir n\u00f6dv\u00e4ndig, liksom en handlingsplan f\u00f6r att n\u00e5 dit.<\/p>\n

Jag satt gladeligen kvar en timme, glad \u00f6ver att f\u00e5 diskutera livsfilosofi med en ny person, och att f\u00e5 h\u00f6ra om hennes erfarenhet. Jag hade kunnat stanna en timme till, om det inte vore f\u00f6r att hunger och barnabstinens b\u00f6rjade peta mig p\u00e5 armen och kasta menande blickar mot t\u00e5get.<\/p>\n

P\u00e5 v\u00e4gen hem f\u00f6rsj\u00f6nk jag i stressd\u00e5ligt hum\u00f6r \u00f6ver f\u00f6rseningen och att SL v\u00e4grade tajma bussar och t\u00e5g. Jag ville bara komma hem till min pojke och hinna vara med honom innan middan. Men sen t\u00e4nkte jag att hur mycket kvalitetstid blir det egentligen, n\u00e4r jag \u00e4r tr\u00f6tt och allm\u00e4nt illam\u00e5ende och ska greja med middag och s\u00e5nt samtidigt?<\/p>\n

Men… Definiera kvalitetstid. All tid med Simon \u00e4r ju kvalitetstid. Jag tar allt jag f\u00e5r. Och m\u00e5ste jag g\u00f6ra annat samtidigt s\u00e5 ok, visst, jag \u00e4r ju i alla fall d\u00e4r. Med honom. \u00c5 andra sidan \u00e4r jag fortfarande jag, vuxna Lisa med egna intressen och behov, och jag hade f\u00e5tt en timmes egen kvalitetstid innan jag \u00e5kte hem. Det var ju d\u00e4rf\u00f6r jag var sen.<\/p>\n

S\u00e5 jag satt d\u00e4r p\u00e5 bussen och slets mellan stress, med ett sting av d\u00e5ligt samvete, och glada k\u00e4nslor \u00f6ver lite egen tid.<\/p>\n

Det k\u00e4nns som typiskt. Varannan sm\u00e5barnsmamma har s\u00e4kert d\u00e5ligt samvete \u00f6ver att g\u00f6ra saker f\u00f6r eget n\u00f6je \u2013 om hon inte vet att barnen \u00e4nd\u00e5 sover eller p\u00e5 annat s\u00e4tt \u00e4r otillg\u00e4ngliga. Men det kommer man v\u00e4l \u00f6ver s\u00e5 sm\u00e5ningom… Eller?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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