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Jag pratade med en kompis f\u00f6r ett tag sen om det h\u00e4r med att h\u00f6ra s\u00e5 d\u00e5ligt<\/a>. Hon \u00e4r sjukskriven f\u00f6r utmattningssyndrom, dvs hon gick in i v\u00e4ggen, och beter sig i m\u00e5ngt och mycket precis som jag \u2013 om \u00e4n av andra anledningar.<\/p>\n

Det hela handlar om tr\u00f6tthet, inte d\u00e5lig h\u00f6rsel i sig.<\/p>\n

T\u00e4nk dig att du har ett rum fullt med prylar p\u00e5 golvet, organiserade i kategorier och h\u00f6gar \u2013 eller hur man nu vill organisera sina saker \u2013 och s\u00e5 g\u00e5r du in d\u00e4r och st\u00e4nger d\u00f6rren. Sen k\u00f6r man in en massa tung (ofarlig) r\u00f6k i rummet, tills den n\u00e5r dig upp till midjan. Du f\u00e5r en ficklampa att lysa ner i r\u00f6ken med. D\u00e4r ficklampans ljus tr\u00e4ffar skingras r\u00f6ken och du ser prylarna p\u00e5 golvet. N\u00e4r du flyttar ljuset fr\u00e5n ett st\u00e4lle till ett annat sluter sig r\u00f6ken \u00f6ver sakerna igen. Du ser bara det du lyser p\u00e5. Det \u00e4r situationen i mitt huvud.<\/p>\n

Vad som h\u00e4nder<\/strong> \u00e4r att man \u00e4r f\u00f6r tr\u00f6tt f\u00f6r att koncentrera sig, f\u00f6r tr\u00f6tt f\u00f6r att orka bidra ens det minsta till en konversation om man inte m\u00e5ste. All energi man har g\u00e5r \u00e5t till att h\u00e5lla ig\u00e5ng det som \u00e4r viktigast; i mitt fall Simon, i hennes fall pedalerna. Man har ingen energi att ta av till annat, man g\u00e5r p\u00e5 reserver ofta och blir v\u00e4ldigt oflexibel rent mentalt.<\/p>\n

Det inneb\u00e4r i praktiken<\/strong> att n\u00e4r n\u00e5gon pratar men dig, s\u00e5 lyssnar du eller f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker i alla fall, men n\u00e4r denne n\u00e5gon blir tyst s\u00e5 nollst\u00e4lls hj\u00e4rnan och d\u00e4rmed ocks\u00e5 samtalet. Det som sas innan bleknar bort i dimman och vad som \u00e4n s\u00e4gs h\u00e4rn\u00e4st blir en \u00f6verraskning. D\u00e4rf\u00f6r kan man h\u00f6ra s\u00e5 brutalt fel ibland, d\u00e4rf\u00f6r att man saknar referenser i sammanhanget. Man orkar inte h\u00e5lla i en tr\u00e5d, liksom, s\u00e5 allt som s\u00e4gs \u00e4r rimligt. Hj\u00e4rnan orkar inte lyssna och g\u00f6ra en bed\u00f6mning mellan olika alternativ om vad som \u00e4r rimligast, utan den g\u00e5r mer p\u00e5 autopilot och k\u00f6r p\u00e5 det som ligger absolut n\u00e4rmast till hands.<\/p>\n

Resultatet<\/strong> blir ofta lustiga missf\u00f6rst\u00e5nd, men det genererar ocks\u00e5 en hel del irritation. Jag blir irriterad p\u00e5 mig sj\u00e4lv d\u00e4rf\u00f6r att jag tycker att jag \u00e4r osmart, och p\u00e5 Bj\u00f6rn f\u00f6r att jag inte tycker att han anstr\u00e4nger sig f\u00f6r att g\u00f6ra sig f\u00f6rst\u00e5dd. Bj\u00f6rn beter sig f\u00f6rst\u00e5s normalt, som han alltid gjort, jag orkar bara inte anstr\u00e4nga mig f\u00f6r att m\u00f6ta honom halvv\u00e4gs som jag brukar. Att f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka bringa reda i det min hj\u00e4rna s\u00e4ger att han precis sagt kr\u00e4ver energi av mig som jag inte har, d\u00e4rf\u00f6r upprepar jag bara vad jag h\u00f6rde s\u00e5 att han kan ordna upp det sj\u00e4lv.<\/p>\n

”Ja, s\u00e5 \u00e4r det. Precis s\u00e5 \u00e4r det f\u00f6r mig ocks\u00e5”, sa min utbr\u00e4nda kompis uppr\u00f6rt n\u00e4r jag ber\u00e4ttade hur det g\u00e5r till hemma hos oss. I of\u00f6rm\u00e5ga att vidare understryka sitt medh\u00e5ll fick hon syn p\u00e5 en skylt vid sidan av g\u00e5ngv\u00e4gen och utbrast, som en f\u00f6rvirrat naturlig forts\u00e4ttning p\u00e5 samma sp\u00e5r: ”Och vad st\u00e5r det p\u00e5 den h\u00e4r skylten (hon lyckades f\u00e5 ”skylten” att l\u00e5ta som den bittraste av f\u00f6rol\u00e4mpningar)? Va? Antikrist?”<\/p>\n

Skylten i fr\u00e5ga visade sm\u00e5 tecknade promenerande barn under texten Knatteknallet. V\u00e5r f\u00f6rvirring begr\u00e4nsar sig med andra ord inte bara till h\u00f6rseln.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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