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Perspektiv<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Jag har en v\u00e4n, vars barn \u00e4r 14 och 10 \u00e5r nu, s\u00e5 hon och jag lever med andra ord olika liv. Jag t\u00e4nker p\u00e5 att n\u00e4r Simon f\u00f6ddes, d\u00e5 var hon ungef\u00e4r d\u00e4r jag \u00e4r nu, vilket betyder att om 7 \u00e5r till \u00e4r jag d\u00e4r hon \u00e4r nu. D\u00e5 \u00e4r Simon 14 \u00e5r, eller n\u00e4stan i alla fall.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hennes 14-\u00e5rige son \u00e4r v\u00e4nlig, trygg, lika l\u00e5ng som hon, och har en flickv\u00e4n. Jag tyckte att det m\u00e5ste k\u00e4nnas konstigt att kunna se sin son i \u00f6gonen utan att beh\u00f6va titta ned\u00e5t, konstigt att han b\u00f6rjar bli vuxen. 7 \u00e5r g\u00e5r s\u00e5 fort, snart \u00e4r han 21 och har kanske redan flyttat, vem vet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jag sa samma sak n\u00e4r Simon var under \u00e5ret, men f\u00f6rkl\u00e4tt i andra ord. D\u00e5 tyckte jag det m\u00e5ste k\u00e4nnas vanskligt i hj\u00e4rtat att han var hemma hos en kompis efter skolan, eller att han gick \u00f6ver sj\u00e4lv till grannarna.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tiden som g\u00e5r f\u00f6r fort<\/h2>\n\n\n\nP\u00e5 landet, 2018.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Jag och min v\u00e4n \u00e4r \u00f6verens om att tiden g\u00e5r fort, och n\u00e4r man ser p\u00e5 sina barn s\u00e5 blir det verkligen tydligt hur fort det g\u00e5r. Adrian b\u00f6rjar i f\u00f6rskoleklass i \u00e5r, s\u00e5 vi g\u00e5r just nu varje morgon v\u00e5r sista termin till f\u00f6rskolan. Och Simon b\u00f6rjar i ettan \u2026 Jag tittar p\u00e5 dem b\u00e5da tv\u00e5 och ser tre\u00e5ringar. Men jag menar att s\u00e5 kan det inte alltid vara, f\u00f6r d\u00e5 blir det ju verkligen besv\u00e4rligt att komma till ro med att de v\u00e4xer om mig och skaffar partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cheesy video i mitt fl\u00f6de<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Aprop\u00e5 det h\u00e4r med att se sin son v\u00e4nda blickarna ut\u00e5t fr\u00e5n familjen, och v\u00e4lja n\u00e5gon annan till f\u00f6rstaplatsen. Det \u00e4r en jublande framg\u00e5ng f\u00f6r alla f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar som siktat p\u00e5 att skapa hela, friska och sj\u00e4lvt\u00e4nkande individer (och som \u00f6nskar sig barnbarn), men d\u00e4r ringar nog ofta gl\u00e4djen med en ton av … saknad, kanske? Jag vet inte. Den k\u00e4nslan \u00e4r sannolikt lika komplicerad som resten av k\u00e4nslorna som h\u00f6r f\u00f6r\u00e4ldraskapet till. Det \u00e4r aldrig enkelt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cEspecially that first son\u201d \u2013 Det \u00e4r naturligtvis inte fr\u00e5ga om att det f\u00f6rsta barnet har den st\u00f6rsta platsen i mammas hj\u00e4rta, men det f\u00f6rsta \u00e4r oundvikligen den som r\u00f6jer v\u00e4gen f\u00f6r alla som kommer efter. Det f\u00f6rsta barnet \u00e4r det enda som kan l\u00e4ra dig hur det \u00e4r att bli f\u00f6r\u00e4lder, det \u00e4r allt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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